During the pandemic, many of us gained a new appreciation for simple forms of socialization, such as getting together at a friend’s place.
Despite having more freedom to attend house parties, potluck dinners, and casual living room gatherings, that doesn’t allow people to behave however they’d like. Here are some rude behaviors to avoid when visiting someone’s home.
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Moving And Touching Objects
Jodi R.R. Smith, the president, said, “When someone says ‘Make yourself at home,’ they usually do not mean this literally. If you want to do something, ask permission quickly. Don’t touch anything until the host lets you. Please do not step on furniture or open the fridge without asking unless it is a close friend.”
Staying Too Long
Leighton urged, “Know when it’s time to leave. The number one complaint we hear from hosts is about guests who overstay their welcome.”
There might be a nightcap in your hand, or you sense everyone is having a great time. Keep an eye on the hosts’ body language and suggest they relocate elsewhere if they want to continue hanging out.
Bring An Uninvited Guest
Gottsman said, “Never show up with an unexpected plus one.”
Perhaps everyone will enjoy meeting the new guy you’re seeing, or your cousin is a favorite of the host. However, you cannot extend an invitation without permission. You should always text the host, even if it’s casual. Bring someone else only if you’ve been specifically told you can bring them.
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Snooping
Smith said, “Refrain from peeking in cabinets and cupboards.”
Several movies have depicted this exact behavior, which is natural and completely normal. Nevertheless, do not peek inside the medicine cabinet in the bathroom.
Awaiting Dietary Restrictions
Smith said, “If you have been invited for a meal, any dietary restrictions should be shared well in advance, not when you sit at the table.”
It’s not enough to expect the meal to be vegan-friendly or not to contain your allergens. Ensure the host is aware of any limitations you may have at the earliest opportunity.