The task of hosting a party is never easy. Despite the panning, cleaning, and food preparation, you still need to be presentable and at the front door on time. On the other hand, being a guest sounds pretty cool. You only need to arrive on time, bring anything you were asked to get, and make sure you keep the company enjoyable.
Why do things often go wrong? Party hosts told us what their guests do that secretly annoys them – often without even realizing it. These guidelines might help you get invited to more parties.
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It Was Late For You To Arrive
Candie Anderson is a lifestyle and entertaining blogger who frequently hosts parties. She recalled, “A few years ago, a guest arrived for a holiday celebration two hours late, and without the main dish they were supposed to bring. There can be delays, but you should try to curb the diva tendencies and arrive shortly before the event starts.”
You Had To Work For Your ‘Gift.’
It might be an appetizer that needs access to the sink, a sharp chef’s knife, an ovenproof bowl, and — oh, heating the oven.
Guests should make it easy for hosts, not make their lives more difficult. Make sure the flowers are in a vase, even a Mason jar, ready to be gifted.
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It Was A Little Bit Too Much Fun For You
One could also file this under “alcohol, excessive consumption.” Chief party planner Seri Kertzner may not have seen it all, but she’s come close. She said, “We’ve had guests dance on top of rental tables in high heels.” Kertzner suggested setting a time limit at your next party. Still, don’t hesitate to control things.
An Expert’s Parting Words
Everything goes smoothly at parties every day. However, it might be a good time to change if you recognize your behavior in any of these hosting stories.
Peters offers heartfelt advice for beleaguered hosts: “Hosts who make people comfortable and relaxed set a good mood for the party.”
Make sure you take a break during your party and don’t let one rude guest ruin it. “Event planning is stressful,” Anderson said.